Anger is the thing that no one like because angriness will make feel to a person and other people very bad. Today in this article we will discuss about the signs that shows a man has anger issues.
Before that, we need to understand that anger is not bad thing unless and until it will make people hurt. It is just a way to show your inner emotions to other person and the ways to show your inner emotions can be different. Every body thinks shouting is the thing that a person do when he is angry but not, A true gentleman and a person who knows about how to react in frustrated situations will show his emotions differently. If he feels people will listen to him then he will react in that situation otherwise he will leave that place.
Now the thing I discuss above is related about those people who have very low anger issues and they can manage it after a little effort. But there are also some people in the world whose anger is out of their control and they hurt someone physically and emotionally after getting angry. Their body and emotions get out of their control when they feel angry and after some time when they come in their right situation they feel guilty for that. If this thing also happens with you then it is not good for your health and body both. After some time you may be start to loose control from your own mind and start to hurt yourself too physically.
To control your anger, First you need to understand either you have anger issues or not and for that I am sharing some signs that a man shows when he has anger issues. Kindly read following points for that:-
1) Getting angry when work does not happen as per him:– This is one of the most common sign that a person shows when he has anger issues. He will be always angry if the work will not be happen as per him. The main thing here is, He will show anger but he will not understand either thing that is happening is more better then as per of his understanding or not. If the thing is more better then he should need to control his anger and let the things happen but if the things is not happening as per of him then instead of showing anger he should go there tell others about his ideas.
2) He can speak hurtful words very easily to others:– People who have high anger issues will never think once to speak hurtful words to other. They think I can hurt and say anything to anyone but in return when other person do the same thing with them then they feel extremely angry. Let me tell you, If you are also doing same thing in your life then stop it because Karma is the thing that return back in your life. If you feel like you can hurt someone from your words then stop speaking right there. But If you feel like some one is also saying bad works and try to hurt you then never stop speaking write there. Give answer to that person in funny way so that he will feel more bad from inside on his words and this thing will not hurt you.
3) Most of the time he shows cold reaction even in happy situations too:– Most of the angry person also have some jealously from inside and that’s why they feel angry and jealous on other’s success, achievement and when they see someone more happy then them and that’s why every time they show cold reaction in any situation. Jealousy, angriness, stress, frustration, anxiety are related to each other and person who suffer from anger issues will always feel those thing together and that’s why extremely angry people cannot handle their emotions when they feel angry.
4) He never understand the other’s emotion:– Person with anger issues will never understand the emotions of other people in proper way. Let’s understand this point from an example: There is a woman who planned to give surprise to her husband on his birthday and for that she did many preparations. But when she go to her husband at 12’o clock in the night to wish him then her husband started to make faces and shout on her because he feels she ruined his sleep. Now, you think how much she will be hurt after that. This thing is extremely hurtful for any person. Angry people will never care about other’s feeling and emotions. They never see the efforts that other make to feel them happy and This thing is very very very bad.
5) He starts shouting on little mishappenings:– Angry people will always fail to control their emotions and that’s why they start shouting on little mishappenings too. In our life, there are some situations where we never shout and show anger to any big and small member of our family. For example- In front of strangers and relatives, we never shout because this thing hurt very much to other person and other people also start to do disrespect of that person. If you feel like you also have same anger issues then control your anger and do not shout anyone in public. Instead of shouting support them and talk politely with them. If any mishappening happen in your life either it is big or not, understand and fix that instead of shouting and showing anger.
6) Always do overthinking and misunderstood others:– Angry people repeat the things again and again in their mind that they do not like and this thing make them feel angry all day. Along with this misunderstanding is also the thing that can make a person very angry. For example- A person see his GF with her brother but he thought that the person was her another BF and his GF cheated on him. Instead of going to her and make clear the misunderstanding he broke all his relationships with her. Now the girl did not understand why he did that and she also suffers very much in this misunderstanding with him.